How to have a Perfect Date

Are you anxious about your date? Not getting Ideas as what to do? Or How to do it? Well, don’t you worry. You are allowed to be nervous, as more often than not, it brings out the best in us. And it is a human nature, so yeah! There you go. A date is all about getting to know about the other person. So, pull your socks up and let’s get to set up a memorable romantic rendezvous. Let’s start up.

5 Type of Guys Who Get Friend Zoned

Friend zone is the place that every single person tries to escape from, but very few people actually manage to do so. More often than not, it is guys who are trying to escape the friend zone that their female crush has placed them in. I am here to help those guys out by letting you know who are the kind of guys who generally get friend zoned.

Is Commitment so Important?

We live in a generation where the definition of the word “Relationship” is described by the adjectives placed in the front of that word: Committed OR Casual. These words overshadow the fact that relationships can become one of the greatest sources of empathic connection and love. People tend to hate the word Casual by assuming that the word “Casual” means “easily disposable”. Some others confuse it by saying “Hookups”.

7 Reasons why being in a Relationship is the Best Thing Ever!

Dating can be fun sometimes‒meeting new people, going out to new places, feeling the excitement of a new relationship. But do you really enjoy it?  It’s just not fun after a certain point. But don’t you feel like settling down when you find that special someone. Many think that settling down or being in a relationship can be boring. But relationships don’t have to be boring! In fact, being in a relationship makes your life better! 

How Modern Dating Actually Goes

In a world where social media sites that have revolutionized our entire existence, it is no surprise that this influence has spread to the world of dating as well. There are a few clear-cut steps of dating that take place these days, none of them ending too well. If you are lucky, you will be one of the few who gets to be part of a couple that actually works and is actually dating. But for most of us, this is how it goes:

The story of when I aimed "Out Of My League"

If you’re in your youth right now then the term that I am going to bring up is going to be one that you are very used to hearing in the dating sphere: league. League or ‘aukaad’ as we call it, is a term that has been coined by society to let you know who looks and yes this is only based on looks, as good as you. If the level of attractiveness is the same, they are in the same league as you are. If they look better than you, then they are out of your league. If you look better than them, then you are out of their league.

9 Tips for asking someone out for a Date

Asking someone out on a date need not be nerve-wracking. The simple truth is that most single people would love to be asked out for coffee or dinner, and will never think less of you for venturing to approach them. In other words, most singles are looking — even longing for — romance and a happy relationship. They are ready to say yes when asked on a date in the right way, at the right time, under the right circumstances. Just a proper first lesson teaching needed. In other words, tips are required to ask your lovey-dovey for a date and therefore, we are here with some tips to make your first date the most amazing one!

1. First and foremost, be who you are, never "present" who you are.


2. Never seek approval, as in "I want to go out with you, I hope you like me." Whether your first or fifth, the date is much more likely to be successful when you are true to who you are and not seeking approval from others.


3. Care about the person you are with. This means, don't just engage them on a superficial level; truly listen to what they have to say.


4. What you have to say also matters. So, when engaging your date, also listen to yourself, feel your heart. Be authentic.


5. When asking someone out on a date, whether it is on the phone or in person, take your time. Never rush. Rushing can often be misperceived as anxious, arrogant and inauthentic. Take your time.


6. Know yourself. Embody all of who you are. Be mindful of your meaningful character traits, the ones you want to embody for yourself.


7. Be honest. If you are anxious, say what is on your mind and in your heart.


8. Getting to know another person and letting them get to know you is an intimate process. The root of the word "intimate" means "intrinsic or essential." It is intrinsic to be who you are, essential that you must be who you are.


9. Have fun. Discover. Reveal.


Best of Luck. Make your first impression as your best impression!



Written by Manisha Choraria
A Graduate, Full of enthusiasm. Bollywood freak and full of life. Love writing and aspire to evolve as a good writer.

How to get over someone you never dated?

When you read that title, you might have been a bit confused. What is there to get over when you and the other person were never in a relationship, to begin with? In fact, since we live in a world that does not believe in relationships anymore, there is a lot.

Most people these days meet somewhere (online or organically), start a virtual relationship (follow each other on all social media sites, WhatsApp 24/7) and then end it within a few months. While this might not seem like a lot, one of the two people does get emotionally attached and has a tough time moving on. This article is for you, the person who has not been able to move on so far.

ACCEPTANCE

Just because the two of you were not in a ‘relationship’, that does not make what you had any less special. Do not feel bad about the fact that you are having a tough time moving on, accept it and life will be much easier for you. Let yourself feel bad about it, cry over it if you need to. Do not make the mistake of holding it in and pretending like it did not matter to you.

ANGER

Every single one of you is going to go through this phase where you will feel extreme hate towards the person who ended it with you. You will ask your best friends to insult them, you will try to think bad thoughts about them and you might even have violent scenarios made up in your mind. This is also a process of moving on. Do not act on these feelings, please, but do let your imagination run wild.

MISSING THEM

Once the phase of anger goes away, you will start missing that person eventually. You will extensively stalk their social media, re-read your messages with them and even check when they were last seen online. And that is completely natural. Try to phase yourself out of it, by keeping the number of views on their profile per day to as little as you can.

ENGAGE YOURSELF IN OTHER ACTIVITIES

Try reconnecting with an old friend, meeting the people you had lost touch with, read a book, watch a movie and just try to keep your mind occupied. Try to think of them as little as possible, by doing something else with your time and your mind. It will not be easy at all,  but it is the only way to move on.

KEEP DISTANCE

You might think that keeping them in your life as a friend is a good idea, but it will not help in the moving on process. You will always have thoughts of what could have been and it will be torture for you. Try to keep minimum contact with them, unfollow them if you need to and stop asking around about them.


Moving on from anyone that we have grown attached to, is not easy. Getting your heart broken is terrible even if you were never technically ‘with’ that person. The most important thing you need to do is give yourself time. After all, time is the only thing that can heal a broken heart.



Written by Sanaa Mehra
Avid reader who will read anything thrown her way (provided that its fiction), Grammar Nazi to the T and a Lover of anything made by Bollywood (I mean anything.) If you're feeling sentimental, here I am!