9 Tips for asking someone out for a Date

Asking someone out on a date need not be nerve-wracking. The simple truth is that most single people would love to be asked out for coffee or dinner, and will never think less of you for venturing to approach them. In other words, most singles are looking — even longing for — romance and a happy relationship. They are ready to say yes when asked on a date in the right way, at the right time, under the right circumstances. Just a proper first lesson teaching needed. In other words, tips are required to ask your lovey-dovey for a date and therefore, we are here with some tips to make your first date the most amazing one!

1. First and foremost, be who you are, never "present" who you are.


2. Never seek approval, as in "I want to go out with you, I hope you like me." Whether your first or fifth, the date is much more likely to be successful when you are true to who you are and not seeking approval from others.


3. Care about the person you are with. This means, don't just engage them on a superficial level; truly listen to what they have to say.


4. What you have to say also matters. So, when engaging your date, also listen to yourself, feel your heart. Be authentic.


5. When asking someone out on a date, whether it is on the phone or in person, take your time. Never rush. Rushing can often be misperceived as anxious, arrogant and inauthentic. Take your time.


6. Know yourself. Embody all of who you are. Be mindful of your meaningful character traits, the ones you want to embody for yourself.


7. Be honest. If you are anxious, say what is on your mind and in your heart.


8. Getting to know another person and letting them get to know you is an intimate process. The root of the word "intimate" means "intrinsic or essential." It is intrinsic to be who you are, essential that you must be who you are.


9. Have fun. Discover. Reveal.


Best of Luck. Make your first impression as your best impression!



Written by Manisha Choraria
A Graduate, Full of enthusiasm. Bollywood freak and full of life. Love writing and aspire to evolve as a good writer.